Huge ugly argument with the ex this weekend over me digging up trees from the orchard.
Year before last, I planted a couple new apple trees in the orchard. They hadn’t really gotten much of a root system yet, which isn’t all that unusual for new trees. All plants tend to follow the sleep, creep, leap rule… the first year you put them in, they sleep. In fact, I’ve often checked things obsessively the first year, thinking they were dying or dead, only to find them just languishing in the dirt doing little.
The 2nd year, plants creep. This is when I had to resist the urge to douse them in fertilizer to speed them up. They are still getting root systems and acclimating to climate, etc. So they just grow very S–l–o–w.
If they make it through until the 3rd year, this is when the stuff underground is relatively established and they should take off. My apples should have been in that stage, but thanks to 2 years in a row worth of horrible summer heat and drought, they were still just creeping along.
So I thought since they had little root system and hadn’t been in the ground long compared to the rest of the orchard, they’d be good candidates for potting up to take with us when we move. (Dear gods make it soon!)
So we got them out, in the truck and were almost done when the ex comes by and throws an epic fit that I’m taking HIS trees out of HIS orchard and how dare I?
Long story short… there were a lot of words, a lot of threats and even some shoving on his part, which thankfully did not melt down into an all out brawl in our driveway. He told my daughter AT LEAST 5 times that Danny and me had poisoned her mind against him and that she was “Drinking the Kool Aid” because she wasn’t siding with him. So apparently, Danny and I are now cult leaders. So I put up a sign, just in case anyone else wants to join.
What a bargain! Right?
This is why you don’t grief creative people. They make art of your bullshit.
On a brighter note, I took my little cultist and her dog walking this morning.
I’m SO ready for summer and to go get in the river. Kiddo is talking about getting a job next year, so this might be our last full summer off together.
Garden will probably be all in pots this year for portability. I’ll post on that when it’s underway. Until then.
Have some Kool Aide! And don’t let the bastards get you down.
B